SINGLE FOREVER

After so many thoughts on hoping for love and praying for love, after all the dreaming of love and wishing for love. I have finally decided not to put my life on hold waiting for love, hence the decision to remain SINGLE FOREVER. Any sense of absurdity? Not at all!

A little patience in going through this article will convey the sensibility of this decision.

In the words of Mandy Hale “Being Single is not a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live everyday happily and let your ever after work itself out.

In the shortest form, Single-ness is having a sense of purpose. Just an awareness or consciousness that you were created on purpose for a purpose will influence your status and a decision to discover what that
purpose is will go a long way in paving way for a fulfilling future.

Singleness shouldn’t just be a relationship status but a status of purpose. Remaining single forever therefore should imply a sense
of focus and purpose even after marriage.

If there is a creation then there is a creator and the creator has a purpose, a reason, an intention of creating everything there is in the creation including you. And the purpose for the creation of each determines its design.

In essence, you have been designed to accomplish something. There is a seasoning effect in you that can transform the world. You are impregnated with something to replenish the earth and there is something in you that needs to be vomited out to make the world a
better place. Find out what it is!
The easiest way to know the quality of a material is to meet its manufacturer, in like manner the easiest way to find and discover
the purpose of a being is to meet the creator and develop a good relationship with Him, contact me if you have a problem doing that.
It is much more easier to be fulfilled in marriage when you and your spouse are “single” (with a sense of purpose). Because whether directly or indirectly it has a great influence on the destinies and purposes of
your children. Countless married couples without a sense of fulfillment exist today most likely because their single lives were spent
solely on waiting for love!

Mind you, Waiting for love isn’t the problem, but defining your life by your relationship status without a sense of purpose is the danger.

It has been said that the abuse of a thing is inevitable when the purpose is not known.

Aren’t you one of those single men wandering around trying to woo every single lady just to have a “married” relationship status? My
single ladies why the decision to abuse yourself, trying to impose yourself on a man just to have a ring on your finger? Haven’t you heard that a busy, vibrant, goal oriented
man or woman is so much more attractive than a man or woman who waits around for others to validate his or her existence? Single? Its good if that’s not just a
relationship status but a status travelling to destiny.

Soon walking down the aisle? It’s better to go Single filed (purposeful).
Married? It’s best to consider singleness (purpose) for fulfillment.
Discover your purpose today!!!

Written by:
FRUITFUL E. JOHN
fruitfulcornerstones.wordpress.com